How To Make a
Relationship Better
Relationships
are hard, I know. Whether with it’s with a partner, family member or friend
relationships can be very complex, they can sometimes feel like one way traffic
or even just stuck in traffic! But how do we make a relationship better?!
Finding someone to build a relationship with is difficult enough, spending all
your time trying to meet women, using single women date sites, building
rapport, flirting with them, and that before you get to the a commitment of
money, trust, honesty, but more importantly the task of maintaining this
relationship. The idea is to generally come up with ways to keep things
exciting, making time for one another and steering your way through the highs
and lows of a partnership. Even healthy relationships need an injection of pace
every now and again. The actions below will make your partner and the
relationship feel fuller, loved, connected, and a lot more of the S word…no not
that word!…stronger!! Relationships that work are the ones that are worked on;
I hope to spark some ideas or even just to help you to recognise some areas of
your relationship that could use a little tender loving care.
Complimentary
A good place to start is to compliment often.
You are there to make the other person feel loved, respected and wanted, and of
course vice versa. To help each other feel the best you can about each other
compliments never go unnoticed. Genuine, honest compliments are the key here so
if you like their outfit before you leave for a date… tell them! However,
saying things and not really meaning it can have adverse effects, if you say
you’re going to do something, do it! Make promises that you can keep, nothing
unrealistic but set yourself goals to achieve and stick to them. If you make a
verbal promise to your partner out loud, this sets it stone! The key here is to
stick to it, work hard to achieve it and do it. For example if you say you’re
going to have date night once a week, say it out loud to your partner, set it
in stone and confirm its going to happen. Once it’s out loud and out there you
are more likely to strive to achieve this.
Rituals
This leads me on to creating small customs or
rituals within your relationship. Using the example above about regular date
nights, this is healthy routine can encourage excitement, commitment, a sense
of expectation and of course looking forward to date night throughout your
working week. Mini traditions within a relationship can be developed into your
personal secret and go to event when you need to reconnect or come together.
This ‘thing’ is yours, to keep, and it can bring you closer together, whether
you like it or not!
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